I propose a new statement.
Women are materialistic when Men are superficial.
"Simply, materialistic women are women who reply on looks more than a man do when it comes to attracting a mate. That is why shoes and hair and all the others is so important to them. Basically whatever benefits them counts. Even in a tiny bit. Guys aren't like that as in they give in and dont give a damn about numbers or often times how they look but personality gives them the edge."
-Quoted from a guy-
So do I agree to the general understatement that says most women are materialistic?. I agree.
The pressing issue here is why do women get their panties in a bunch when they are closely associated with this term - materialistic?
My personal opinion being, this is a somewhat negative term to have it associated with women. Some may agree, some may not. Although the quote from the guy above seems a legit definition for being materialistic, materialistic also means that you are more attracted to tangible things rather than intangibles.
Lets breakdown shall we, lets just say 80% of girls are materialistic 20% are not (not actual statistics)
So which one do I belong to? On a spur I would say I belong to the 20% who are not materialistic.
But do I?
I am a person who would prefer a heartfelt kiss to a diamond anytime/anyday.
I am a person who would prefer a stroll on the beach to a candle light dinner.
When someones says to me "you are materialistic", I used to have this urge to get myself a d'eagle.
Most men are superficial. Yes? Yes!
Question: Given there is only two women left in the world. One is not good looking but is smart and one is very good looking but isn't smart. Which will he go for?
Answer: Men will go for the good looking one.
Do not deny this fact. Some are more superficial then others but ultimately most men are superficial.
This is the way the world operates these days. Its very frustrating for people like me who belongs to the not good looking category. There is nothing we can do about it except to better ourselves. This include shoes, handbags, mani pedi, and all those. Having done that we get labelled as being materialistic.
When in all fairness we are all just trying to reach a standard that men has set for us.
This being said, I agree then, that all women are materialistic, but some are more sensible than others.
Now this is the case only when men are superficial. All men are superficial but some are more realistic then others. Some don't like girls who are dark, but if her native genes are the ones that gives her dark skin what do you expect her to do. Obviously she is going to go buy all the whitening facial products in the market. Oh this will lead to her being labelled materialistic.
Personality matters yes, some might even say personality comes first then looks, but its how realistic your definition of looks is what that makes you fall into categories on "level of men superficiality". In other words, all men are superficial.
From all the arguments above, we can deduce that,
(a) All women are materialistic
(b) All men are superficial
(c) But some are sensible than others.
Ultimately we want to reach a decision in which it favors both party so this is a number that is always is neutral. Let say that number is zero.
Women = a+c
Men = b+c
Women are the opposite of men.
therefore time "a" with (-)
Women now = -a+c
Men= b+c
b+c = -a+c
b = -a
0 = b+a
Proven.
Women are materialistic when Men are superficial.
Agreed??
2 comments:
Hahahaha...calculation terikuthu!
Wei long time ady read your write ups..
Good write up and something to think about.. :)
Perfect.....I sadly agree.
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